兌 Dui














Discussion:


Interpersonal relationship matters.

It is best conducted in a relax and harmony.

Balancing opinions and relationships is no easy task.

Network like a gentleman and stay on guard against petty people.


〈兌〉卦講悅,實際上是說與人相處,應該彼此心情舒暢,氣氛和諧。

能做到這一點並不容易,它的既有基礎,這就是卦辭提出的「貞」。

所謂「貞」,就是純正的動機,處事正當光明,不阿諛諂媚。

表現在人身上,就是《彖傳》所說的「剛中而柔外」。

剛中,內心有主見,堅持原則和而不同;柔外,謙虛和氣,尊重別人。

離開「貞」,人際關係的舒暢、和諧,可能會變為諂媚討好、虛情假意,為君子所不取。

有關爻辭特別告誡有「剛中」品德的君子,要加倍提防小人的逢迎討好,不要墜入小人的陷阱。

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