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A Feng Shui Master's Guide to a Perfect Chinese Wedding in Singapore

Unveiling the Beauty and Harmony of Traditional Customs and Modern Elements

As a Feng Shui master with years of experience guiding clients through life's significant events, I have had the honour of witnessing the harmonious union of tradition and modernity in Chinese weddings across Singapore. In this engaging article, we will delve into the intricate customs of a typical Chinese wedding in the Lion City, revealing the symbolism and cultural significance behind each process step. With a touch of Feng Shui wisdom, I will help you understand and appreciate the beauty of these rituals and guide you to a perfect, auspicious wedding celebration.

  • An Auspicious Beginning: The Night Before the Wedding (隔夜)

The bride and groom spend the night before their wedding day separately, a tradition meant to build anticipation for the union. Despite the growing prevalence of couples cohabiting before marriage, this practice signifies the start of a new chapter in their lives, allowing them to enter the wedding day with renewed excitement and energy.

  • Combing of Wishes (梳头): Blessings for a Lifetime Together

On the wedding day, the bride and groom separately participate in a traditional hair-combing ceremony, signifying their transition into adulthood. Conducted by their parents or an older, respected family member, this ritual sees blessings and wishes for the couple's happiness, health, and prosperity recited, imbuing the day with positive energy and setting the stage for a harmonious marriage.

  • The Journey to Love: Bridal Car Procession

The groom, accompanied by his groomsmen, heads to the bride's family home in a decorated bridal car adorned with flowers, ribbons, and other auspicious symbols. The joyous journey is marked by the loud honking of horns, announcing the wedding and spreading happiness throughout the streets of Singapore.

  • Fetching the Bride (接新娘): Overcoming Challenges and Embarking on a New Chapter

At an auspicious hour, the groom arrives at the bride's home to fetch her. The groom and his groomsmen face a series of "gate-crashing" games or challenges set by the bridesmaids, symbolizing the groom's determination to marry his bride. These games must conclude before the auspicious hour, ensuring that the couple leaves the bride's house in perfect harmony with the universe.

  • Tea Ceremony at Groom's Home (敬茶): Honoring the Union of Two Families

The couple travels to the groom's family home to perform a tea ceremony, serving tea to their elders in a show of respect. The elders, in return, offer the couple red envelopes (hongbao) containing money or gifts, symbolizing their blessings for a prosperous and happy marriage.

  • Tea Ceremony at Bride's Home (敬茶): A Glorious Return to Celebrate Love

The couple returns to the bride's family home for another tea ceremony, this time serving tea to the bride's elders. This ceremony symbolizes the bride's return to her family home, acknowledging her new status and the union of the two families. During this time, the bride may change into a different dress, showcasing her transformation and embracing her new life.

  • Capturing Memories: Wedding Photoshoot

The couple may choose to have a wedding photoshoot at picturesque locations across Singapore, creating lasting memories that they can cherish forever. Iconic landmarks such as Marina Bay Sands, Gardens by the Bay, and the Singapore Botanic Gardens provide the perfect backdrop for capturing the love and joy of their special day.

  • A Feast for the Senses: Wedding Banquet (婚宴)

In the evening, a grand wedding banquet is held at a hotel or restaurant, celebrating the couple's union with family and friends. The event usually begins with a cocktail reception, allowing guests to mingle and enjoy refreshments before the couple makes a grand entrance, accompanied by a march-in song and pyrotechnics or other special effects.

  • Dinner and Toasts: A Culinary Journey of Symbolism and Happiness

Guests are treated to a multi-course Chinese dinner featuring symbolic dishes representing prosperity, fertility, and happiness. During the meal, the couple may visit each table to express their gratitude and receive well-wishes. A toast, or "yum seng" (饮胜), led by the emcee or a close family member, sees guests raise their glasses to wish the couple a happy and lasting marriage.

  • Cake Cutting and Champagne Pouring: A Sweet Beginning

The couple may cut a multi-tiered wedding cake and engage in a champagne-pouring ceremony, further symbolizing their love and commitment. The act of interlocking arms while pouring champagne into a tower of glasses is a joyous moment shared by the newlyweds and their guests.

  • Farewell and Send-Off: Starting a New Life Together

At the night's end, the newlyweds bid their guests farewell, often handing out wedding favours as tokens of appreciation. The couple may then depart for their honeymoon or spend their first night together as a married couple in a specially prepared bridal suite.

Conclusion: Embrace Tradition and Create Your Perfect Chinese Wedding

As a Feng Shui master, I have had the pleasure of advising many couples on their journey to create a harmonious and memorable Chinese wedding. By understanding the cultural significance of these time-honoured rituals and incorporating modern elements, you, too, can create a perfect wedding celebration in Singapore that honors the past while embracing the future.


Let me guide you on your journey to a perfect Chinese wedding. Reach out today for personalized advice and consultation.

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JASON CHAN

At my practice, I use Ba Zi and Feng Shui to provide my clients with a comprehensive assessment of their lives. I take into account the unique energies of a person’s home and surroundings, as well as the energies of the environment and the person’s own destiny. With these insights, I am able to offer my clients assistance to help them reach their goals, and improve their lives.

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