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Unveiling the Wisdom of Chinese Wedding Rituals: The Power of Family, Elders, and Feng Shui

Updated: May 17, 2023

Chinese Wedding

Chinese weddings are a beautiful tapestry of ancient customs, rich symbolism, and deep-rooted values. As a Feng Shui master, I have had the privilege of advising clients on the significance of these rituals and incorporating them into their special day. Join me as we explore the role of family and elders in Chinese wedding rituals (婚礼) and unveil the wisdom at the heart of these traditions. Lastly, be inspired to embrace these time-honoured customs in your celebrations.

  • The Engagement and Auspicious Date Selection (订婚与择吉日)

The journey to a harmonious marriage begins with engaging and selecting an auspicious wedding date. Consulting a fortune-teller or Feng Shui master (like myself) ensures that the couple embarks on their new life with their ancestors' and elders' blessings and guidance. The involvement of family elders (家长) highlights the importance of their approval and support in the couple's future.

  • Bridal Dowry and Betrothal Gifts: The Art of Exchange (嫁妆与聘礼)

The exchange of betrothal gifts (聘礼) and bridal dowry (嫁妆) is an essential pre-wedding ritual that strengthens the bond between both families. As a Feng Shui master, I have advised clients on the symbolic significance of these gifts and how they contribute to the couple's marital happiness. The elders oversee the exchange, upholding traditions and fostering family goodwill.

  • Honouring Ancestors and Elders: The Tea Ceremony (敬茶仪式)

The tea ceremony (敬茶仪式) is a beautiful tradition that allows the couple to express their gratitude towards their parents, grandparents, and other elder relatives. This ceremony embodies the essence of filial piety (孝顺) and reinforces the importance of family ties. By honouring their ancestors and elders, the couple paves the way for a blessed and prosperous marriage.

Are you planning your Chinese wedding and seeking guidance on incorporating these cherished rituals into your special day? As a Feng Shui master with years of experience, I can help you navigate the intricate customs and bring harmony to your wedding celebrations. Get in touch today and create a wedding honouring your heritage and bringing blessings for a lifetime.




At my practice, I use Ba Zi and Feng Shui to provide my clients with a comprehensive assessment of their lives. I take into account the unique energies of a person’s home and surroundings, as well as the energies of the environment and the person’s own destiny. With these insights, I am able to offer my clients assistance to help them reach their goals, and improve their lives.

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